Now, as the
new year has arrived, the stores are filled with weight loss products, the TV
shows more weight loss commercials than the actual TV program, the magazines
are full of tips on how to lose weight and etc. etc. etc. This will last
through whole January, in February it will slow down a lot because people have
simply given up on those unreachable and pardon my language: stupid resolutions
they set for themselves in hope that the New Year will magically bring all that
is needed to fulfill those resolutions. They don’t work for it, or well, they
do buy bunch of dieting products thinking that that will magically make them ‘skinny’,
and in few, if not none of the cases does it work.
I am
annoyed by those ads that only are there to fool people to waste their money on
as pointless, unnecessary dieting products. And what does it do for us, other
than making us feel bad about ourselves? I don’t really know. But I know that
it is triggering as hell having to go to the pharmacy to buy supplement drinks (none
dietary) to actually drink WITH food, and the first thing you see is a mountain
of diet supplements saying you should drink them INSTEAD of food. Is it just
me, or has this become a real problem in today’s civilization?
The hottest thing today is to drink something, that you actually don’t know
what is (other than it contains x calories), instead of eating real, healthy,
satisfying food. Can you believe it? Are we that lazy and desperate to lose
weight?
I’m going
to be honest and say that I have been very tempted to buy those things, even
now in recovery, because it says that you can easily lose x kg within 2 months.
My mind tells me: “oh perfect! “ But hey, I need all the nutrients I am getting
from eating the amount I am eating. I need those proteins, I need those carbs,
I need those fats, I need those vitamins and I need those calories! My body doesn’t
work without them, and neither does any other body.
Drinking
those drinks doesn’t magically fix the problem you have with yourself. It won’t
make you feel any better about yourself. It doesn’t make you prettier or more
perfect. And it doesn’t make you more important than you ever were before. (You
are more important than you think, and you will never become less or more important
than that! You are as important as it is possible to be and ever become!) It
doesn’t fix a thing. Not even for people those are obese. It won’t make them happier;
it won’t boost their self-esteem etc. etc. etc. (I could go on and on and on,
but I won’t bore you). All those things come from the inside. Even though the messages
you get from the ads are that you become happier, prettier and healthier. That
is bullshit and nothing but bullshit.
My
therapist told me that we have to be critical to ads like that and think about
who those ads are actually for. Are they for normal people within healthy
weight? No. Are they for slightly overweight people that can easily change
their diet to become healthier? No. Are they for us dealing with eating
disorders? Hell no.
So why
bother to waste money on dietary things you really do not need instead of
buying that gorgeous shoes you’ve been looking at for weeks? For me it is an
obvious choice.
-M
(no pics in this post as they can be triggering)